Are you alone?
Are you in a relationship that you'd like to have work better?
Do you keep creating the same negative relationship patterns over and over?
If so, read on!
If you want more, maybe it's your beliefs about yourself that's limiting your relationship happiness.
Recently two friends and I worked on beliefs we had about romantic love, and about having a great relationship in our lives. One of us was already in their special relationship and the other two had men in our lives and wishes. We still found so much was buried deep in our psyches. So which are you? Are the one who is happily in a special relationship? Or are you the one with the wishes? Either way, there might be more to learn.
When I started doing ThetaHealing I had no "significant other" type relationships in my life and no possibilities on the horizon. I knew I was pushing men away. The two encounters with men that I'd had previously had soured me to both love and ses. Yet, I really wanted men in my life but I was still holding onto past hurts that were draggin' behind me like a cart full of baggage. Way too much baggage to be present enough to even think about receiving what I wanted and desired. So, I started letting it go. I worked with numerous Theta buddies on it. Then, when I thought I was clearer, I did a 6 part relationship teleclass and the results were amazing. All of a sudden I started allowing men into my life. But, I wasn't ready to even think about manifesting my "most compatible soul mate", yet.
Vianna Stibal, founder of Thetahealing, says we have many possible "most compatible soul mates" and that who is "most compatible" changes as we change our beliefs. Her point of view is to do as much work as possible on yourself before doing a manifestation using Theta because close relationships usually reflect back to us the work we still need to do. Better to let go of major baggage before actually pulling someone into your life. Our beliefs create our reality and if you think that men/women will fail/deceive you, they will. If you believe they will bring joy, love, respect to your life, they will.
Way before Thetahealing and before I did my own relationship classes, I attended Kathryn Woodward Thomas's "Calling in the One" class several times and Alison Armstrong's Making Sense of Men and Celebrating Men, Satisfying Women workshops. These have been very helpful to me, but it was Thetahealing that made the changes that have lasted.
I love Kathryn's book, Calling in the One. It's full of fabulous exercises for discovering just what the baggage is that you carry. Awareness is a key. When you become aware of beliefs that you have, you can clear and change them easily with Theta Healing. One of the things that Kathryn points out is that a man can treat one woman badly and move on to the next and treat her like a queen. Why do you think that is? Exactly. Because one woman thinks of herself as a Queen and the other's opinion of herself is not that high.
During my Thursday night ThetaSynergy class we've devoted several classes to exploring relationships, compatible soul mates and the beliefs within us that block having what we desire. We even came up with this magnificent list of what we desired in a relationship so that our manifestations would be specific. One continuing member of this class spearheaded the list and has manifested her "soul mate" relationship.
For me I'm excited about having delicious, exciting men in my life with whom I feel comfortable and have fun. It is a first for me with these kinds of relationships. I know I created it with Theta. And I also know that I'm clear enough to have one, special person be in my life. There's no hurry about that. No desperation. I have so much joy with myself and with all the fabulous people with whom I get to play. And yes, I am ready for someone special. And he's on his way to me. I know that too. I don't have to look for him. I spent years doing that. This man will come and claim me. My focus is being fully open to receiving him. My job is to enjoy every moment of my life, be present in my life right now.
In the past, every time I'd meet a man that attracted me, I'd first contract and then wonder -- Is he the one? Men feel that. It's a pressure. Now, in the dance of life I'm mostly present with what's with me now and when I'm not I use that as a gift to learn how I can be more present. What is it I need to do for myself, or what is it I need to communicate, or clear, using Theta to be more present?
Which brings me to the whole point of this blog post. Valentine's day is coming. For women it's often a time of longing for what you don't have, creating expectations about what you want and for men it's a time of pressure to make it special for someone you care about. In any case, only a few get to truly be present and enjoy it? Let's be a part of that few.
I decided to do a 3 part Teleclass to assist us to further clear whatever we need to clear to have the romance in our lives we desire to have. I'm going to limit it to 10 people who truly want to make a difference in their romantic lives. Here's what the 3 part class will include.
Class 1. Beliefs about myself. What beliefs do each of us have that will limit or block having the types of relationship and connections we desire? If you have ANY negative talk about yourself with respect to romantic relationships, this is where we'll clear them. I'll be sending out a worksheet to assist you in discovering these beliefs so we can do the clearing with ease and speed.
Class 2. Beliefs about the opposite sex. (or beliefs about having a romantic relationship with the same sex.) What you believe about the opposite sex is what you get. Worked with someone recently who had done a lot of work on relationships and she still felt she could not depend on men, count on men, and that men would fail her. If you've had any father issues or even brother issues this can be buried in your subconscious. For men it's the reverse. (There's a worksheet here, too.)
Class 3. Manifesting the romantic relationship you desire. In this class I have a guest working with me. Lora Cain, Also know as Miss Lora, the Internet Dating Coach. Lora had used Theta Healing to manifest her most compatible soul mate and she's going to join me on the call to answer questions that you may have about that. We'll be emailing the relationship list -- just so you can use it to compile you own. And we'll talk about what happens when you surrender the job to Creator or Source.
Normally, this teleclass would be $79, but if you sign up by Friday, you can do it for $62.00. The teleclass is limited to 10 people and it will run for 2 hours for each class. Register Now!
Note: Limited to 10 participants.
No single classes -- You must be in for the whole run. Classes will be recorded.
Class Dates: Tuesday, January 27, February 3, February 10, 2009
Class Times: 6 to 8 p.m. pacific time.
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Posted by: Sadie | December 14, 2009 at 09:40 AM