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Theta Healing and Your Fears – the Good News!

What are you afraid of?  Sometime we have really big fears like a fear of heights, flying, being closed in or going outside of the confines of our home.  Sometimes we fear being out of control, or being without love or money or a source of abundance.  I started to write a next sentence that goes something like “often it’s the little fears that thwart our dreams and desires.”  And in the moment before I typed it I had another thought. Are there any “little” fears when it comes to how we paint the landscape of our lives? 

These days fear gets a really bad rap.  It is said that fear is the lowest vibration.  That it is fear that will keep you from connecting to the source of all that is.  It’s something that we want to remove from our lives.  Anxiety is another name for fear. 

Ester Hicks and the Abraham collective she channels talk about balancing your energy in many of their books including The Law of Attraction: The Basics of the Teachings of Abraham and The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent: Living the Art of Allowing – because what you feel is your way of telling the universe what you desire to attract.  And so, if you have a persistent fear, that’s what the universe brings to you.  With ThetaHealing your power to create is heightened.  Fear and anxiety are things you want to change as rapidly as possible. And you can with Theta Healing. The longer you stay in fear the more fear comes to you.  It is recommended that you change your vibration, which you can do intentionally by focusing away from the fear or anxiety to a higher emotion. Fear is at the bottom of the vibration frequency so presumably focusing to any other emotion is a lift. Keep focusing upward and you’ll get to love or joy. 

One problem I see with this approach is that the root cause of the fear is still in place there in your subconscious and every time it’s triggered, back comes the fear.  

Fear has a purpose.  It is the emotional reaction that alerts us to danger.  It’s our subconscious’s way of attempting to stay safe.  Seemingly irrational fears are our way of trying to make sure something never happens again.  For some it is an intuitive communication to pay attention, e.g. hairs rising on the back of the neck when there’s danger.  Whatever your fear or anxiety, with Theta Healing it can be used as a gift. 

How can fear possibly be a gift?  It is the thread to follow to find the core or key beliefs that are triggering it.  To erase the trigger for the fear in the subconscious is a journey to the key or core belief.  In the same situation Theta Healing, using the Principle of Quantum Physics and in connection with the energy of ALL that is can show your subconscious how to and what it feels like to stay safe in the same situation using a much higher vibration.  Your subconscious can learn how to utilize fear as a momentary danger signal and then tap into other means to maintain safety.  Thus, you use fear as it is intended and your subconscious knows how to and what it feels like to shift immediately to a higher emotional vibration.  Thus keeping you in the vibration necessary to attract what you most desire. 

All of this takes some doing.  First we have to locate the fear, dig for the bottom beliefs, clear them and make sure we are taught how to and what it feels like to stay safe while using a higher emotional vibration. 

Sometimes our fears are seemingly small ones – if I’m successful I’ll be overworked.  Or somewhat larger, if I’m successful I’ll be unhappy.  Others include

-          I’m afraid I don’t know how to handle the power.

-          I’m afraid I’ll misuse the power

-          If I’m happy I’m afraid I’ll never get anything done

-          If I’m successful I’m afraid I’ll never get anything done.

If you’ve read this far, you’ve come up with one or two of your own.  Chances are it’s already manifesting in your life.  Clearing out these kinds of fears is a major key to attracting what you want in your life.  That’s where my one-day class comes in.  That’s the first place for our focus.  Finding and clearing our fears of having what we want.   We’ll be digging as a group to locate the key beliefs that are generating the fears that limit us.  Group or synergistic digging provides a depth and speed in the digging process that’s often not available when we work on our selves or one on one.  Here’s what one of the people who attends my West LA classes says about it. 

I've been to many kinds of Theta workshops and practice groups and Suzanne is creating some of the most extraordinary classes available. Instead of telling us what she thinks we ought to have as downloads, she works organically with her students to discover what each one needs (and of course in the process, the entire class always discovers they have the same belief to be cleared). It is an incredible experience to work as a group to clear some of our most painful and vulnerable areas and then to be enveloped within the energy that is created when we do just that. I invite everyone to come and play with us and I guarantee you will find your life transformed. Her classes certainly have done so for mine.  Lora C.

The class will also cover downloading the resources that we need to attract and receive what we desire.  Many of us need a little more work on what it feels like to be happy and successful so that we can really feel in a way that communicates our intentions.  That’s another place where ThetaHealing is such a valuable tool.  We can use theta to teach ourselves what it feels like.  In the one-day class I’ll make sure you have the feelings needed to attract what you desire. 

If this sounds like something you want to be a part of you can register here.  The class will be in West Los Angeles, 9:30 to 4:30 on August 2.  The cost is $125.00.  Space is limited with only 3 slots remaining.

Click here to register.

Not available for the one day?  Know you’d still like to work on your fears?  I’m having an August Sale on Private Sessions.  I’ve reduced my single session price to $80.00 just for the month of August.

Save over $130.00 when you purchase a package. 

Buy package of 4 private sessions for the price of 3 ($240.00).  Email me for a special link to pay for this as the price is much higher on my website.  (Usual price for a private is $125.00 and my 4 for the price of three is $375.00.)  The above package is only available from now till the end of August – but you can schedule the sessions anytime.  Limit of two packages per client.  My sessions usually last from 60 to 75minutes.  Limit of two packages per client. 

Call at 818-590-0062 or email me at thetahealingblog@gmail.com

Theta Healing Basic Class coming to West LA in September.  Let me know if you are interested or know someone who is.

For More info on The Relationship Teleclass click here

The Adventure of Following a Thread -- About Relationships

“Relationships begin at home.”  So goes the line I heard in my head as I was walking through the living room to the front porch to begin my time of writing this morning.  Sometimes the universe gives me a sentence like the one above.  And then, waits to see what I will do with it.  If I grab it, it is often a doorway to an adventure in imagination or thought.  If I do nothing with it, it will fade. 

Julia Cameron, author of The Artist Way, told a story in one of her Creativity Camps about hearing a one liner while driving on a trip. She pulled over and began to write and this one liner led to a whole series of stories. Today, I’m grabbing the thread and following.  Come along and let’s see where it leads. 

Once I wrote the above sentence in my journal I heard “We source our relationships from home.”   Hummm!

Who is/Where is home?  We are home.  Within us.  In diverse personal growth experiences I’ve heard it said, “There’s no one out there.”  What we believe within us so colors the outside world that a change within totally changes the way our external reality responds.  I had this happen a while back.  I was getting ready for a meeting with a client on a web site I was designing and the whole while I had a negative voice in my head that sounded just like this client.  And, this version of the client within me was criticizing everything I was doing – “You are going to slow.  That’s not big enough. The type is too small. The design is off.  I want it another way.”  And, I started arguing with the voice.  After about an hour of this I began to plot how I could fire the client. 

The meeting with this client was imminent.  My interior environment did not bode well as an indicator of the outcome of the meeting.  The negativity continued as I drove to the appointment.  About a block from the meeting place it finally occurred to me that the voice was mine.  The judgments were mine.  Duh!  And so, too, must be the beliefs about what the client thought about me. (I did have some proof for these judgments that included phone calls and past meetings with the client, none of which had been very pleasant.)  In this flash of clarity, I realized that with ThetaHealing I could change my own beliefs about what the client felt about me. (You can’t change someone else, but you can change your own beliefs about what someone else thinks about you – and if there’s no one out there anyway, then maybe how they feel about you might change as well.)

I pulled over and began to change my beliefs about how this client felt – using the negativity I’d been through that morning as a gift to let me know what those beliefs were – that I was too slow, my design work wasn’t what he wanted, etc.  Using theta I installed beliefs that he really liked what I was doing, was very pleased with the speed and design work and was very happy about the progress of the web site.  Mind you, I wasn’t really sure this would have any result, but it was worth a shot given that my other scenario of how the meeting would go had me blowing up and firing the client. 

Right from the start I could feel that the atmosphere in the client’s office was different.  The client had everything set up and told me how happy he was with everything so far.  I was so surprised.  He continued on that he really appreciated my coming to him and the timeliness and design work I was doing. What a turnaround!  It really brought home to me just how much power we possess in all of our relationships. We had a productive meeting and the newfound ease in our relationship continued until I completed the project.

The inner is the key.  Our relationship with ourselves is the key.  How do you feel about yourself?  How loving are you?  How critical are you?  One thing I know is that the more critical I am, the more I attract criticism to me from the outside.  The more loving I am the more I attract love and appreciation.  What is your internal relationship with yourself?  Would you like to change it? 

A Teleclass on Relationships is starting. It’s a 5-part series with class number one on our relationship with ourselves, then our relationship with source, relationship with love, life and money/abundance.  I know from the organic nature of my previous classes that we’ll cover some unexpected territory.  It will be an adventure.  If this is something that interests you, let me know via email thetahealingblog@gmail.com or phone - 818-590-0062.  This one is scheduled to start the second week of August on a Wednesday night. The number of participants will be limited. Are you interested? Let me know.  

Don't forget my one-day class -- Attracting Love and Money.  I still have a few spaces. 

 

Attracting More of What you Want

When asked “what do you want more of in your life?” most of us will include in our answers more love or money.  If you are a ThetaHealer you’ve probably worked on some version of these areas more than once.  If you are like me you’ve probably worked on them a lot.  ThetaHealing^TM teachers often do intro classes on getting more of what you want, more abundance or love or better relationships because it’s a general draw.  Why? Because most of us want more in those areas. 

So if we’ve cleared and cleared, why do we not have the more that we want?  Or why did we only get part of what we wanted?  Or why do the same situations keep coming up over and over and over again? The Secret has shown us how.  Abraham Hicks seminars have show us what to feel and how to achieve that.  Napoleon Hill.  Wallace Wattles.  And on and on.  Way too numerous for me to cite here. 

What if the place where we desire the most, or feel the greatest lack is the driving force to receive our greatest gifts?  What if it's that the way because we’ve set it up that way or learned that it had to be, should be or is pre-ordained to be that way.  Often, that need or desire drives us to explore our greatest fears, to look at our ugliest issues, to find and clear answers to having that more of what we want.  How do we learn to do it another way?

And speaking from my personal experience, I do find oh so much every time I go there.  I am thankful and grateful for the experience, however difficult.  For me it’s a motivator, an “ass kicker” so to speak.  The more I look, the more I find.  And sometimes the situation changes, gets better, then it comes up all over again.  Sometimes it gets worse.  Undaunted and even more determined, I look more deeply, explore more fully. 

I know a woman whose need to have love, marriage and a child, whose need to find an available man and thus to find the places in herself where she was unavailable led to a brilliant book on the subject. There are teachers of abundance who got started because they wanted to discover how to have more abundance in their own lives.  Some of our greatest teachers started from what they wanted to learn or  to heal.  Vianna Stibal, the founder of ThetaHealing^tm discovered and developed ThetaHealing^tm out of her own need to go beyond a life challenging situation.  Since then she had continued to further enhance and develop Theta from other life challenging situations.

So my next question is, can we motivate ourselves or be motivated without these lacks, pains, difficulties, obstacles?  Will we reach, can we reach, can we learn to reach our greatest potential, our greatest creativity, actualize our greatest gifts without them?  And if so, what is it we need to learn in order to live our potential without the daily drama our pains, lacks and obstacles create?

I do not pretend to have the answers.  I do have a few of the questions. And I feel that you have more of the questions. With each question I learn more.  You have different questions than I do.  Different obstacles.  Together, we can transform our lives.  That’s my point of view about coming together to do Theta in a class or group setting. 

Just in the course of writing this piece, and talking with my Theta buddy about it, I’ve learned a great deal about my lacks and where the focus of my desire is absent in my life.  And I know there’s a great deal more to learn.  Which is why I’m doing the one-day class called Attracting Love and Money.  Actually you can fill in the blank and make the title “Attracting ___________ and ___________.  And that's what this class will be about for you.

One of my greatest joys is working spontaneously, in the moment with a group of people.  The synergy of the group exponentially expands the learning for each person. 

And that's what I think happens in my classes, what I desire to have in my classes.  Exponential learning.  Exponential transformation.

Here's what one member of  several of my classes says about being in one of them.

I've been to many kinds of Theta workshops and practice groups and Suzanne is creating some of the most extraordinary classes available. Instead of telling us what she thinks we ought to have as downloads, she works organically with her students to discover what each one needs (and of course in the process, the entire class always discovers they have the same belief to be cleared). It is an incredible experience to work as a group to clear some of our most painful and vulnerable areas and then to be enveloped within the energy that is created when we do just that. I invite everyone to come and play with us and I guarantee you will find your life transformed. Her classes certainly have done so for mine.

If you feel a yen or simpatico with anything in this article, come play with us on August 2 in West L.A. from 9:30 to 4:30. at the Attracting Love and Money one-day Class.

Whether or not you want to play in a group, below are some downloads to get you started. 

Downloads:

I have the Source Energy’s/Universe’s/Creator’s perspective, understanding and definition of what motivates me now.  (If you want this just say YES out loud and allow that awareness to come to you.)

My perspective, understanding and definition of what motivates me now is the same as the Source energy’s/Universe’s/Creator’s.  Say YES to receive it. 

I know how to be motivated without ______________________.  (Again YES will download.)

I know what it feels like to be motivated without _______________________.  ( Say YES, out loud if you want it.)

If you want to explore this issue in a private session, you can call me  818-590-0062 or click here to learn more about private coaching sessions and/or my coaching packages.