Dissolving Fear -- Loving Yourself - Theta Thought for Today
Wow! What a night. Last Thursday night I facilitated a Theta Support Group on the Westside of Los Angeles. The evening was set to be about fears. I call this group the Theta Breakthrough Group because it’s changed from the normal “practice group” where people change up and work on each other to this high-powered energy filled evening of making deep core changes. We do this as a group with myself facilitating the changes, and everyone contributing to the digging and to what will be changed. When we do the work as a group it seems to build a synergy among us that goes beyond working one on one. We encourage each other to go deeper and deeper to the basic underlying issues and beliefs. (This group has people who have participated in numerous practice groups, most have done the Advanced Training and some of the participants have completed the Theta Teacher Certification and Intuitive Anatomy. To come you must have completed at least the Basic Theta Healing Class. As a side note, I do a practice group in Pasadena where we do divide up and work with each other one on one so that the participants get practice at doing Theta with each other.)
On Thursday night we started the evening just looking at what were our greatest fears. And then we got to one person who started to tell a story. (I usually keep stories to a minimum, but this one seemed important to all of us and it was.) The story was about a series of Laurel K. Hamilton’s vampire books where the main character suffers even greater degradation in each book for 15 books.
As this participant put it, “I kept getting so angry at what the author was doing to the main character that I stopped reading the books for a while. And then in book 15, I got it. The theme of the books was: If the character became everything that she feared, would she still love herself. Knowing that this practice group was coming up and that it was about fear, I asked myself what I feared most and realized that it was becoming a bag lady. So then I muscle tested ‘Could I love myself as a bag lady’ and, of course, I got a ‘no’.”
"If I become the thing I fear the most, can I still love myself?" The magnitude of this question becomes apparent when we realize that most of us don’t love ourselves the way we are right now in perfectly acceptable lives. The thought that we could become something we are terrified of paralyzes us and makes us even more afraid. Using ThetaHealing you can clear yourself of fears all day long. Unless you dig deeper to the underlying problem of loving oneself in every situation, the subconscious will keep creating fears because we think the fear will keep the “bad thing” from happening. But what we really need to do is to love ourselves in all possible circumstances.
This story opened a path to looking at what were those roles we might play or situations in which we might find ourselves where we muscle tested “no” for loving ourselves. One of the participants was taking notes and she had 7 pages. These included loving oneself as a failure, a success, a homeless person, a millionaire, a billionaire, when feeling judged and criticized and when feeling acclaimed and recognized. The list went on and on with each of us digging for more and more of those little places within each of our beings where we withheld self love. (I've excluded some of the darker things we came up with.) Each time someone would conquer their reluctance and mention one that seemed like it was their own deepest darkest place, at least one or two others in the group -- if not all of us -- would have the same one.
We didn’t clear these beliefs one by one. We asked the Creator for Creator’s perspective, definition and understanding of loving oneself and to make ours the same and then we asked Creator to teach us how to love ourselves fully and deeply in all situations. As we pulled the guilt, shame, trauma and cell trauma from our beingness around these situations, the amazing part is that most of the fears cleared as well. My take is that we fear those places we don’t want to tread. And those are the places where we are withholding love of ourselves.
A lot of teachings say that the fear is the absence of love. Often they are talking about love for others or love for God. On this night we discovered that our most powerful fears lie in the lack of love for ourselves.
No matter what we do, no matter what we say, we are still a spark of the divine. What if that’s our job here on Earth – to learn to love ourselves in all situations, to love and acknowledge our divinity whatever role we may be playing in the moment. What if, through loving ourselves, comes the path to love all that is around us. What would happen to this Earth, if each individual on it truly, fully and deeply loved themselves. What we found was that the more we loved those unmentionable parts of ourselves the more our fears dissolved. And it is fear that creates war and hate and the ugly that man has done to one another. Most of what we don't like on this Earth is sourced from fear. What if we learned to love it?
Downloads:
Would you like God’s/Source/Creator's/All that is's perspective, definition and understanding of loving yourself fully and deeply in all situations? If so, say YES out loud right now.
And if you’d like your perspective, definition and understanding of this to be the same as God’s, Source’s/Creator’s then say YES right now.
We did a lot more downloads to clear these issues and if you'd like to know more about this, you can contact me. 818-590-0062.
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